In this episode of the "Who is Dr. Cara" series , she shares the moment she realized that the skills she used as a psychotherapist—like building rapport and finding common ground—were the true essence of leadership. She discovered that people aren't standoffish; they're just waiting for permission to connect. This isn't about being an extrovert. This is about understanding that genuine connection doesn't require a personality change—it requires intention. Dr. Cara challenges us to find our own "elevator moment" and create space for someone to be human. In this video, you'll learn: How to find profound insights in ordinary moments Why "breaking the rules" of social norms can lead to powerful connections The missing piece in most leadership approaches How creating psychological safety leads to increased team performance, innovation, and engagement The difference between managing people and truly seeing them.